Thursday, November 25, 2010

Site Review: Collarme

collarme.com is a site that is a free BDSM personals site that has been around for a few years now.

I have given this site many chances since its creation, and each time I have ended up doing the same thing: deleting my profile and leaving with disgust and disappointment.

The ONLY plus that the site has? It's free. That's it. The only positive.

The site is chock full of trolls for one. You know the kind - only looking for either kinky sex or what they think are "easy girls" because they are sub or slave. The kind that really are not into the BDSM lifestyle, just on there because they cannot find elsewhere. Each time I joined... plenty of messages from guys who want to "get into it" right away - without so much as buying you a coffee first in a public place.

It is also chock full of fakes. Lots of profiles there that are just plain fake. They never intend to meet, they just play their little games over the site.

Lots of timewasters too. Lots of messaging... and nada to show.

Tons of professional Dommes as well! Nothing against, I have done (and still do occasionally) and I know quite a few and they are great peeps. Just that it is supposed to be a BDSM *personals* site, not "Pro Domme Central". If you go through locally for female (or trans) dominants, and hide all the pro profiles... you have very few left!

The forums are not well run. And boring as snot lol.

The search function has not changed since inception, and is utterly inadequate unless you are in the USA. Hello???? There *are* other countries, yanno! So if you are in Montreal and looking... you have to search through results that include everywhere in Canada.

You'd be better off elsewhere. Like try a munch or an event.

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